The first time Tyler Howard came over to our house was last Thanksgiving. Every year, my husband, Nick, and I host a Thanksgiving dinner for all of the soldiers who didn't go home for the holiday. I remember overhearing Tyler having a conversation with Nick, declaring his love for his best friend, Taylor, back home in California. "Well, why don't you ask her out, man?" Nick asked him. "I'm going to!" Tyler declared. "I'm gonna do it! Next time I go home!" (Yes, Tyler is a person who talks in exclamations a lot.)
He actually didn't. It wasn't until Taylor flew in a few months later to visit that Tyler finally officially asked her to be his girlfriend. See, Taylor and Tyler have the storybook romance… Boy meets girl in high school, boy gets put in friend zone, boy and girl become inseparable best friends, boy falls in love with girl, girl (eventually) realizes she loves boy too. I swear, this is not a chick flick plot. These two genuinely grew up riding horses, learning to dance on a hill by their houses, hanging out in coffee shops… I mean, it sounds like it's straight out of a movie.
So when Tyler revealed to me a few months later that he was ready to pop the question, I insisted that he hire a photographer. "Every girl wants a photographer at her surprise proposal!" I reminded him every chance I got. So, I was obviously thrilled when he asked me to photograph it for him. We planned it out meticulously a couple of weeks before. He would take her to the park in Steilacoom by their future apartment, a small bluetooth speaker would be set up and waiting for him to play their song, and he would dance with her on this beautiful white platform overlooking Puget Sound. I'd be hiding just in front of the platform out of sight, and at the end of the song, he'd reach into his boot and I'd hurry into position. It would all happen at golden hour with the sun in front of them on a beautiful day…
There was one flaw in our master plan. We were SO excited about how perfect it was, we didn't think of a plan B. Nick and I got down there early and set everything up. I crouched down in front of the platform as planned and Nick disappeared into an alley. Then, a couple walked up. I peeked up from the platform and smiled at them. Taylor and Tyler were approaching quickly and I froze. How do I kick these people off the platform?! I tried to make it very obvious what I was doing without shouting at them to leave, and even gave them the universal "shh" signal, like, "don't rat me out." Then they started talking to each other in Spanish and all I could understand was, "photo." Oh, great, so they saw me and were probably going to give me away!
I heard their boots hit the platform and immediately Taylor ran over to the railing and leaned over. I was RIGHT UNDER HER NOSE! I quickly melted into the side of the platform as best as I could. Tyler spotted me crouched down and started laughing. "Tyler, why are you laughing?!" Taylor asked. "Oh, I just saw some lady pick a wedgie…" "Uh huh. You're acting weird, why are you acting weird?" and then a few minutes later I heard, "You're really sweaty, it's not that hot out!" and almost laughed.
After about 10 minutes… a really good leg workout for me, crouching down there… Tyler texted me and said he was going to do it on the bench. There were 3 benches! I was freaking out, I had no idea what to do and Taylor was starting to get annoyed with how he was glued to his phone. At one point, I thought I knew which bench and was gonna make a run for it, but when I peeked out they were right in front of me! I quickly ducked back down thinking I'd ruined it. I texted him to come down by the fence and do it, thinking I might just have a shot at catching it if he did. So he did, he totally winged it and it turned out great! He played the song on his phone while I hovered around the platform taking pictures through any opening I could find. I watched them dance and then he started to crouch down. He was digging in his boot for forever!